Mom was a quilter, as am I. If there was a small mistake in a quilt project, once the final stitches were in and the project was washed, no one would ever see the problem. Most things just don’t have to be perfect. — Laura Falk, 57, St. Louis, Missouri
‘All people bring joy: some by coming, some by going!’
It’s such a lighthearted way to reframe interactions with difficult people. Always makes me laugh! — Michelle Pauk, 42, Franklin, Tennessee
‘少吃, 多滋味’
“Eat less, taste more.” At a time of scarcity of food during the war, mother used to say her motto to us at meal time. — Christa Shih, 92, New York City
‘Knock with your elbows.’
It meant show up at a friend’s place burdened with contributions for the party. — Natalie Serber, 64, Portland, Oregon
‘Better to wear out than rust out.’
Having had polio, my mother’s inclination was toward motion, in which she often was a blur. She could best her three daughters in sports and accomplish more in a day than all of us combined. — Catherine R. Seeley, 78, Easton, Maryland
‘A man riding by on a fast horse would never notice.’
She used to say this whenever I complained that something wasn’t perfect. It taught me to always remember that “good enough” is good enough. — Susan Moxon, 81, San Diego, California
‘Tout passe et tout s’efface, sauf les souvenirs.’
“Everything passes and everything fades away, except memories.” I find myself using my Haitian mom’s saying whenever someone frets over something of little importance. — Babette Wainwright, 73, Madison, Wisconsin
‘Don’t push the river.’
Now I say this to friends — stop striving and forcing outcomes, trust the natural flow of life, let go and stay present. — Julie Merrick, 56, Olympia, Washington
‘Sing out, Louise!’
To my mom, this line from the musical “Gypsy” meant always let your presence be known. Make a choice, be specific and carpe diem. “Curtain up, light the lights!” — Jonathan Cobrda, 35, New York City
‘Never pass up an opportunity to pee.’
It’s very true, especially on road trips, but it also has a deeper meaning in my life: Take care of something when you get the chance. — Cari Stoltz, 42, Richland Center, Wisconsin
‘I’m in your pocket.’
Mom always said this to me, and it made me feel safe. Now that she is gone, I hear her in my mind’s ear and know she is still always with me. — Julie Lewis, 70, Providence, Rhode Island
Parent like it's: 1950s, 1970s and 1990s - here is what they have in common:
Free-range play
Home-cooked meals
Reading aloud
Gardening together
Board game nights
Handmade crafts
Family storytelling
Picnic outings
Neighbourhood gatherings
Nature walks
Traditional celebrations
Looks good to me, but then what is different today? One article says that play has evolved from free-range to finely-tuned - parents driving all over the place picking up children from highly organized, time-defined activities does seem to be the norm now. We know what's happened to home cooked meals by walking up the middle aisles of a grocery store. And search for home-cooked meals and you will find that they can be delivered directly to your home.
Some of these others seem suspect: who gardened together in the past - children had garden chores.
As I look at that list a bit more, these things seem like a hundred years ago. Picnic outings, for example. What does a picnic look like today? AI has an answer for me - a blend of rustic charm and modern aesthetics. There is only one page of picnic articles, including the information that Picnic day is in March, an odd time of year for a picnic. Then the "picnic" topic turns to what Prince Archie looks like now, Steven Kwan's future, what the iPhone 18 Pro looks like and May Day Italy 2026. Picnics are not much of a 2026 activity.
What if this is one of those filler ideas that is fun to read? It does have a nostalgic sense for those of us who were children in that nuclear family of the 1950s to the 1970s. A little nostalgia has made its way into the retro parenting topic.
I have three bee houses for native bees. I put one of them on the top shelf of the potting bench to keep it out of the rain. I now share the potting bench with the bees who come and go. These aren't honey bees who have a hive to defend and would sting. Our native stinging bee - the bumble bee - is too big to fit into any of the holes.
If you were to calculate your camera's life in terms of shutter time, it would be a few minutes at 1/100 second shutter speed.
Here's another calculation: "If converted to time, a professional camera with a 300,000-shot lifespan used to take one photo every 10 seconds for 8 hours a day would last roughly 2 years."
Modern mirrorless cameras have a mechanical shutter with a lifespan of infinity, as there are no moving parts.
There is now imaging technology where "a camera can capture light in super slow motion, effectively moving at the speed of light. These cameras can record at a rate of one trillion frames per second, allowing them to capture light pulses moving at 600 million miles per hour in super slow motion. Scientists are able to observe light in unprecedented detail."
It is called T-CUP: The single-shot 10 trillion-frames-per second "compressed ultrafast photography" camera. The article in evolving science is HERE. The video of light passing through a bottle is HERE.
The unit they talk about is a femtosecond.
"A femtosecond is an SI unit of time equal to \(10^{-15}\) seconds (one quadrillionth of a second). It is used to measure ultra-fast processes, such as molecular vibrations in chemistry and light traversing a human hair, which takes roughly 100 femtoseconds. Femtosecond lasers are widely applied in high-precision, non-thermal industrial processing and medical procedures like LASIK."
Good thing they tell us it is a camera as the picture of it doesn't resemble any cameras that we know.
Another exotic Trillium in Marion Jarvie's garden.
Update from yesterday on the question: Will there be actual 'real-time' people in the future? The answer is trending towards "no" with news from South Korea that a Robot Buddhist Monk took precept vows at Buddhist temple.
Looks like there's a daily quiz: is this real? Let's play. Is that dog real or fake? What do you think?
The next picture of the child jumping on the seats? Real or fake video?
And the answers? The dog is real. And the breed? American Bully - a breed known for its muscular build, broad chest and clipped ears. it is a mix of the American Pit Bull Terrier and American Staffordshire Terrier that was bred between the 1980s and 1990s. Is it as dangerous as the image implies? They were responsible for approximately 75% of fatal dog attacks between 2021 and 2023 in the U.K. while making up less than 1% of the dog population. It is now illegal to own an XL Bully in the U.K. Makes you wish the picture was fake.
The jumping child picture/video was a real one too - out of many more that are fake. Should airlines do something about screaming, jumping and kicking children? Maybe treat them as XL Bullies and ban them? They are talking about creating "quiet zones." as these videos are everywhere. The videos are the intro to articles giving advice on how to handle the jumping child behind you. In comparison, there also are articles directed to the parents - things like be calm: "if a neighbour complains, stay polite and empathetic." The topic attracts headlines like:
I was at choir practice yesterday and I can hear it when someone in my section - the altos - is not singing the right notes. Usually an alto singing wrong notes is singing lower rather than higher.
It seems to me that anyone inclined to sing higher seeks to be a soprano. But that doesn't spare them when they sing wrong notes as I expect sopranos singing the wrong notes also sing lower. This is called "tone-shy" compared to tone-deaf and people seek a "comfortable" pitch which generally is lower than the intended note.
This morning the Globe and Mail had an article on how call centres are using AI to change the accents of customer service centre representatives. That's to make them more understandable to "us." What do you make of that? First that they are still using real people, and second they can alter their voices in real time. To me it seems like science fiction.
We shouldn't be surprised. They already do that with celebrity singers in need of pitch correction. Auto-tune became famous when Cher used it for a stylistic vocal effect on Believe. It is now standard practice.
Not surprisingly, the article says that Justin Bieber uses auto-tune. How do I know it isn't surprising? I remember him as a teenager singing outside the Festival Theatre in Stratford and he sang so badly that Rick thought someone should put him out of his misery. It may be that Rick offered to do the job.
So would auto-tune be usable for our sopranos who have difficulty with those high notes? My guess is yes. I see them all hooked up with tubes and little iPhone sorts of machines on their laps. I guess I am inclined towards a science fiction sort of motif.
My complaint about wrong notes goes nowhere - I can't expect it to help the wrong note singer. It says it cannot fix singing that is extremely off-key. Still in the science fiction motif my answer is this: Wait a few days, and AI will have something to completely replace the singer in real time. We'll just stand there.
Would people be tempted to change their voices? This seems like a lazy way to do it - rather than elocution lessons. Get accents that are considered attractive, remove unattractive accents, change the pitch and emotion of voices and so on. I expect it has already started.
Will there be actual 'real-time' people in the future?
Are you ready for some giant exotic Trilliums? These were in Marion Jarvie's garden on the weekend. They are known as Giant Trilliums. Maybe it is Trillium chloropetalum var. giganteum ‘Alba’ - the flower petals stay vertical and don't open up like the Grandiflorum.