I am intrigued by Frank Epperstein's elusive statement: "And I haven't been the same since." It sounds sad, depleted, reduced, and melancholy. There's no indication from the definition that this might be the case. What is of concern with the definition is whether it is inclusive or exclusive of the time before referenced. It is inclusive.
But somehow since has become an anthem - a marker of a catastrophic event. There are a number of songs lyrics that include line and substantiate the idea:
I haven't been the same since I lost my bro I haven't been the same since I loved that hoe Things haven't been the same since you got back from Italy Things haven't been the same since we left (Explicit)
They all seem to extend the phrase into the realm of the "cynical absurdist". It is the disdain rather than despair that stands out, along with the mocking quality. Here's the sticker/t-shirt on eBay: I haven't been the same since that house fell on my sister I had to scroll through a lot of jokes to find some to share. I thought there would be lots but what is there is mostly demeaning sex jokes. Here are my chosen few:
The Supreme Court has changed dramatically since Justice Ginsberg died. It has become Ruth less.
Ever since I became the new produce inspector I've been visiting local grocers and supermarkets; but they're always surprised to see me. It seems nobody expects the spinach inquisition
Ever since the storm started, my husband won’t stop looking through the window. If it gets any worse, I will have to let him in
And this one - not in the time sense of the definition, but definitely in the cynicism club:
Devil: This is the lake of lava you will be spending eternity in Me: Actually, since we're underground, it would be magma Devil: You understand this is why you're here, right? |