It turns out that every expression is used up - take the expression "a regular guy." It is a novel by Mona Simpson. It is about Tom Owens, actually, Steve Jobs. That's her late brother. They were orphans separated by adoption who later found each other. There was no "regular" childhood for them.
"The Urban Dictionary defines a regular guy as “a guy who is humble, down-to-earth, open and honest, easy to get along with, and generally well-versed about all the usual things people do. Someone who isn’t power-hungry, arrogant, super competitive, insecure, or egotistical. A guy you’d want to have a conversation with about things like sports, fishing, camping, hard work, relationships, home repair, music, cars, movies, power tools, etc. A guy who will never embarrass you or cause problems socially and has nothing to prove.”
Given that mythical sort of definition, one wonders about the title of the book. I wouldn't use "guy" around him or about him at all, in fact. And definitely not "regular."
So it isn't surprising that the book is considered a "scathing expose... Mona changed the names and sold the book as fiction, but the world knew better."
I guess a deceitful pretense needs an expression that matches. I say that as this expression seems to be targeted to white North American men. Romcom movies seem to be about regular guys.
Ask the question: Ask it for different countries.
Are there regular guys in France? And the answers are about dating, stereotypes and demographics.
Regular guys in Germany? It is about height, then dating, and then demographics.
Regular guys in China? It is about why they are the most single in the world, then average height.
Now this is interesting. The myth vs. the reality. All good fun. |